12 Questions

Questions to Ask Your Wedding Officiant

Questions to ask when interviewing wedding officiants. Use these essential questions to find the perfect vendor for your wedding.

Key Factors to Consider

Ceremony styleLegal requirementsPersonalizationExperience

Contract Questions

Are you legally authorized to perform marriages in our state?

Why it matters: Must be legally valid

Do you file the marriage license?

Why it matters: Understanding responsibilities

Style Questions

What is your ceremony style?

Why it matters: Religious, secular, or interfaith options

Can we customize the ceremony script?

Why it matters: Personalization preferences

How do you handle writing personalized vows?

Why it matters: Guidance on vow writing

What do you typically wear?

Why it matters: Attire coordination

Can we include cultural or religious traditions?

Why it matters: Inclusive ceremony options

Logistics Questions

Will you attend the rehearsal?

Why it matters: Practice is important

How early do you arrive on the wedding day?

Why it matters: Coordination timing

Do you use a microphone?

Why it matters: Guests need to hear

Experience Questions

How many weddings have you performed?

Why it matters: Experience level

Pricing Questions

What is your fee and what does it include?

Why it matters: Understanding full costs

Red Flags to Watch For

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    Not legally authorized
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    Unwilling to customize
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    No references available
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    Won't attend rehearsal

Pro Tips

  • Confirm legal requirements for your state
  • Meet in person before booking
  • Share your love story for personalization
  • Clarify expectations about ceremony length

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