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Frequently Asked Questions
Most wedding speeches should be 3-5 minutes (about 400-600 words). The best man and maid of honor typically have the longest speeches, while parent speeches can be slightly shorter.
Avoid mentioning exes, embarrassing stories the couple wouldn't want shared, inside jokes only you understand, controversial topics, and anything that could make the couple uncomfortable.
Practice your speech multiple times out loud, avoid too much alcohol before speaking, take deep breaths, have water nearby, and remember that the audience is rooting for you.
It's best to have notes or an outline rather than memorizing word-for-word. This allows for natural delivery while ensuring you don't forget key points.
How to Write a Wedding Speech
Writing a wedding speech can feel overwhelming, but with the right structure and guidance, you can deliver a memorable speech that celebrates the couple. Our speech writer tool provides templates for every role in the wedding party.
Speech Writing Tips
- Start early: Don't wait until the last minute. Give yourself time to write, edit, and practice.
- Know your audience: Remember that guests of all ages will be listening.
- Be authentic: Speak from the heart - your genuine words will resonate more than borrowed quotes.
- Practice out loud: Reading silently and speaking aloud are very different experiences.
- Keep it positive: Focus on the couple's love and future, not past problems.